A Great Blues Harmonica Player

You start by having the woman you love rip your heart out of your chest, stomp on it, and leave it layin' in the cold november mud, while she packs up her things and never comes back. Then buy a good blues heart (key if C bends easily) then play to forget and play for better times to come. After all that... repeat process as necessary to achieve a bronken soul via vibrating metal reeds. There really is no better teacher than time.